Jerks and life

I really think that men have a monthly as well. My husband has been on his for the last week. He is on vacation this week and I don't know if he is just trying to fit to much in on his week off, or what his problem is. He has been grouchy all week and I'm about ready to pack him off somewhere. He thought he was going to go fishing today, well somehow the rain is my fault. Oh well, I hope that he is in a better mood come the weekend. My niece is getting married, sniff sniff. She is 26 and settling down. To be in her postion again, I don't know that I would do it. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband and my children and my life most of the time. It just gets really hard and very tiring. I can't wait for the wedding, it will be hard to see her get married. My mom passed away 11 1/2 weeks ago, she always said that she would live to see Brit married and have babies. Well, she said that about all of her grandkids. Brit is the oldest, and my mom always babysat her. From the time my sister went back to work until Brit started school. She was almost more at home with us than she was her parents. I know that she will be watching from above and we will all that she is there. She was always so proud of Brit. Life does go on...

So, lets start this thing.

I have a friend who's blog I have been following for awhile. She always has interesting things to say and they are things that she needs to say. I really don't know where to begin this. Just start I suppose. I have all but decided that men are total jerks. You try to have a conversation with them and they look at you like you are stupid. I go outside this evening to talk to my husband and to see if he needs help. It is dark and he is changing the oil in my van. Well, skippie lost the cap to my air conditioner port. He was checking the level. Anyway, he starts yelling at me when I offer to help find it. He is the jerk. I really should not clump all men into this group. So, I leave him standing out in the driveway looking for the cap, I still do not know if he found it or not. I just don't get it, he was acting like I lost the cap! Why does that bother me so, maybe because he has been acting like a butt for the last week. He is on vacation this week and has been able to do what he wants, except for yesterday and part of today. Yesterday he went with our daughter on a field trip and today I scheduled him a doctors appointment and an eye appointment. God help me if I schedule them when he is working, the earth would cease to spin. Okay, so I guess in this my first blog we have determined that my husband is a jerk. More later on the rest of the family.