Grief that men cause!

Okay, so it would seem that I'm all about ragging on my husband. Well, that could be because he is causing such grief this week. Honestly, I really don't know if he just doesn't know what to do with himself or what his problem is. Yesterday I gave him what I thought was a very SIMPLE task. Could he do it? NO! I asked him to pick up Tracy and bring her to me at my work and pick up Jacob and take him home. I had a meeting and would be back in the office to finish up my day. He somehow came up with that I was not going to be finished until 430pm and that the appointments I had scheduled for my daughter and I were cancelled. I passed him on my way back to work and he had Tracy with him. So, needless to say I was pissed. He doesn't listen. I really feel at times that I have 3 children instead of 2. I am so over trying to not let it bother me, he has been like this for years. He says that I think I say things that I don't really say, and that I assume that he knows what I mean. Oh please, like I could ever make that assumption. He can't follow simple direction. We have a wedding this weekend and if I could get away with it, I would leave his butt at home...Men, what do we really do with? I love him, but boy I wish he would grow up!!